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Valentine Day- Love is mad......

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February 04, 2011 14:15
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karma: 344

My marriage is fixed through Tamilmatrimony. Bcoz of parents compulsion I registered my profile in matrimony. If i receied any profile i just copied the horoscope and sent to my mother. After 4 months(no idea to marry anyone before 4 months), I received one profile. I just saw his photo and suddenly one bulb is lightning above my head(Mozhi film style) tells that to my mind, he is the person you are going to marry. After that i saw his name(Nandanjeeva). Since my childhood i like the name Jeeva, but i didnt know anyone in that name. Again i felt happy(ennamo kalyaname nadandhuta madhiri) and i couldn't control my emotions, so closed the profile.

After an hour i saw his profile details(not fully) that gave me a shock

. He is in cine field. I never like cine field on that time. I confused a lot for 2 days, atlast i was not ready to change my mind. So i sent my horoscope details to him(We both believe the horoscope). He didnt reply for 2 days. But i was eagerly waiting for his reply(Since i didnt tell about this to anyone).

Later, he mailed his horoscope to me. He notified in his profile that he was in orkut. I searched him in orkut, found out and sent a request. He accepted the request. I often opened the orkut and always looking his photo. My collegue asked that who is that? I hided to her.

I was sending a Independence Day wish to all my friends.

Unknowingly i sent to him also(See the fate, before that i never save any profile's contact number in my mobile. Simply gave it to my family members, atfirst i saved his number). He replied 'thanks and wish u the same'.

I feared if he took it as wrong. But again he sent "the days are not good for you to check the horoscope match so have to check it after 3 days".(Actually i gave my number with my brother's name in horoscope, but he identified that it was my number). Message conversation continues for another 3 days. He is also like to marry me. But the horoscope match is must for him rather than me.

The 3rd day he made a call. I never attend any calls after 10 p.m but he called me at 10.30 p.m, i attend). We didnt know what have to speak, but 1 hour on call. The next day he checked out the horoscope... I was waiting for his call..... But he sent a msg "the horoscope match is Apoorva Porutham".(Its really true in our life).

After that I told about him to one of my family friend who is also in his field. He went to see him for confirmation and gave a good certificate. We came to a conclusion that "we have to meet first. If we likes each other, then we decide the marriage(He feared that if my profile was fake)". Then I told about him to my family. Both of our family members were not ready to visit chennai for seeing us. So they told that "U both have to meet first, if you likes each other we'll take further move".

So We decided to meet on 20th August at 9.30 A.M in Vadapalani temple.... The day before he called me......

He: How can you come to Vadapalani temple from Kodambakkam."

Me: By auto.

He: Shall i come and pick up you. Why dont u waste money for auto?

Me:

Ok. But dont come near to my hostel. Plz wait in the street end.

He: Expect me on 9 - 9.30A.M.

On the day, my hostel warden helped me to wear saree(I bought new saree bcoz i came to know from his conversation that he likes saree). Its 9 A.M. No

calls..... 1st time I made a call to him. He didnt attend. Again i called.... No response...... I shocked........

Automatically tears are coming from my eyes

- "Am i cheated by him (Lot cheaters in Tamilmatrimony na, if he is one of them).No... the god wont cheat me in this matter". Again i tried once again, he picked up and told "Sorry i slept. I'll we be there within half an hour (he is in Vadapalani)". Waiting.....

He was waiting in the street end of my hostel and called me. I came out with nervous. There was a drizzling. I called him and asked "it’s rainy shall i come

by auto". He replied "Hero heroin meet pannumbodhu mazhai peiyum. No problem. U have to come".

I walked towards the street end. He is there....... Very first time i saw him..... Till now, that moment is in my mind freshly..... But he came with lot of beard(already i knew but didnt guess this much beard) and wore an old shirt. I was thinking "Why he is coming like a begger?" and walked towards him. I wanished that. He was watching me with romance. First time I feel shy (really). Feel nervous and fear. Finally went near to his bike. He asked "Polama?" I said "mmm......" and sat in the bike without waiting his any more speach. He asked sorry for late coming and not attending the call. I said "Its ok". The bike was moving towards the temple. Again i feared that If he is a wrong person what would be happened?

"Will face the problem". Finally we reached the temple. (Avar vandhu kootikitu ponaarnu ippa varaikum yarukkum theriyadhu. Ippadhan ungakita soldren.)

I didnt see his face bcoz of shyness and fear. I walked in front of him,didnt come along with him and waiting for dharashan. In my mind "dear Hanu(Adhan namma Hanuman darling) Pudichurukunu sollanum", "Ok sollanum"

. After dharshan we sat in front of Anjaneya and he started to speak.

He:"mmm... apuram sollunga..."

Me:"Nenga sollunga"

He:"Phonela niraya pesuneenga, ippa edhuvum pesama irukenga, Vekkama?"

Me: (smiling...)

He:"Nan openave solliduren enaku ungala pudichuruku, Ungaluku?".........

Thats it..... I flopped..... I replied "Enaku romba pudichuruku"(Annaiku vizhundhavardhan). Then we talked about both of our families and then went to Saravana bavan hotel for breakfast

. Return with him to hostel. I couldn't able to leave him on the time. Then we informed to our family. After 15 days our engagement was over. I never forget the day 20th August in our life. We celebrated this day last year also. Every year....

We both were in different culture, different career, different caste(3 days after meeting only we came to know we were different community, bcoz both were

not seeing the profile details fully. Fortunately my parents also accepted. For him, he is the decision maker(no parents)) But there is only one knot We both loves each other. We passed one year. Our love increases day by day. I never expect anything from him except a true love. After that i realized, "All Persons are not bad in cine field. There are lot of people living to achieve".

He is telling that he is lucky to have me. But am the lucky person to have him. No one replaces our Amma's love. But he is not only my life, my amma....

22 comments so far. What are your thoughts?

Aks

karma: 350

Like your last lines... very true..

February 4, 2011

vidhyaje..

karma: 39

Superb Kalai!! Really nice and thrilling moments!!!

February 4, 2011

Chaithanya

karma: 25

Nice moments.. Hope you can never forget this till your life end............

February 4, 2011

Anishmom

karma: 271

Nice blog..Voted for you...

February 4, 2011

Charu_2011

karma: 257

you have given me nice feel and the moments you have mentioned here came in front of my eyes as if I'm watcing a cinema..ur writing shows innosence and really make me to share my happiness to you. God bless you.

February 4, 2011

Indhulov..

karma: 504

good narration da.. my vote to you..

February 4, 2011

Jaysvimal

karma: 330

Loved the filmi style :)

February 4, 2011

ANU4NIVEDH

karma: 798

Best wishes..God bless..

February 4, 2011

lalithav..

karma: 111

kalai super, and nice narration

neeyum story writting pogalam pola

my best wises for both of u...

February 4, 2011

penitia

karma: 369

ur feelings and happiness hv turned into beautiful words...nice blog kalai...my vote for u..

since ur husband is in cine field u shud hv seen many cine artists illa.? hv u been to any shooting?

February 5, 2011

Kalaijeeva

karma: 344

Thanks to all my dears!!!!!!!!

Lalitha, nanum enn husbandku scenes solluven. Enn storya filma pannanumnu enaku asadhan. (Ana yaar produce pannuvanga). Film story madhiriye namma lifela nadandhurukunu naanga 2 perum adikadi sollitu aacharya pattukuvom.

Penitia, I didnt go any shootings till now. but usually goes to music release functions and Kalai nigazhchi these kind functions. I saw many of the artists. But didnt interact with anyone(i dont like them actually, i like the members which are behind the screens)

February 5, 2011

rubinira..

karma: 197

hey kalai nice blog da..... actually unaku sms pannitu idhula comment panna marandhuten....sorry.....

February 5, 2011

vinay amma

karma: 353

grt,nijamave tamil cinema pola iruku.

February 5, 2011

Rajiguhan

karma: 251

very nice and sweet expressions...framed it very well.

February 7, 2011

LuxReetu

karma: 217

Very casualy narrated . I can feel the nervousness in these lines "Pudichurukunu sollanum", "Ok sollanum" . Both are lucky to have each other.All the best.