lol....even i felt the same when my daughter left me n went for the first time....but now i wait for her to go to school, coz thts the only time i get for myself....and moreover i have 2nd one to take care too...

How sweet i got so emotional ..tameee dont worry send her school daily yaar thats how u will help her grow make new friends learn new things and sooner she will start enjoying...all the best

Hey Tame,

Happy that u daughter wentto school, but please do send her everyday. I know u will be missing her but she need to learn things and also enjoy her life na...

girlie.. now I am thinking who is the little girl here.. dont worry dear.. she will be enjoying there and you will be relieved to see how much change the exposure will bring to you.

Frankly I had no such tensions when I was sending him to school last year, but he brought a surprise to me.. Infact he was going to a play school since he was 1.5 yrs old. he used to go alone in an auto and come back all by himself.. and he was very enthu too on the first day to pssbm.. but there he went in, all kids were crying.. he didnt know what to do and he started to cry.. not because he was leaving me but because all others were crying and he thought I was leaving him in some insecure place.. but then he understood and his teachers were so cool, that he started to enjoy so much..

He is surprise package too.. He never used to get up till 10.30 on all his holidays how much ever I try to wake him up. the day the school started he just heard the alarm and he was up by 6 all by himself! Kids...

You never know when they will surprise you.. His love is shared now.. He loves his teacher for the three hours, then he comes to me.. I meant, he will definitely plant one kiss atleast before he leaves school everyday.. and my cheeks have gone down so much all because of him!

As Bhavya said, you will soon be relieved that she is at school, coz, thats the only time you'll be all for yourself..

I  meant the exposure will bring a lot of change in her as well.. and dear just as everyone said, whatever be our emotional tussle inside, dont hold her back from school, thinking its just today na... take care..

I agree with Bhavs ... this is the time where u can do all ur house work ...and u can even enjoy ur time...u can make use of the time  useful (join some course , or if ur intrested in craft work do those...like this many are there... so make use of it...

and as Jays said... even my son was very happy to go to school on first day...I was the one more worried... New country ...Unknown language for him ... if he wants to express something what he will do??? no one to talk to him in tamil...like this i had lot of doubts ...but he enjoyed his school a lot and till date he never likes holidays...he will be fighting with me why ur sending appa to office ???  why u r not sending  me to school???

Uthara , Bhavani , Radhika , Gayathri , Jays ... and all other moms whose kids have started to go to school ....Enjoy ur days well... 

Hey Uthara,

Jus now scrapped u landed here!

Yeah,these days,parents r only more worried than the kids!Yes,i agree witth all the other ppl's views...the gal shd also grow up na?soon she'll be having her new frnds and wud expecting school daily...so,better u grow out of ur emotions.

All the best to both of u!

tame,

i can understand ur feeling dear,but its for their future the education.if u show hesitation 10percent child will feel 80 percent that mom is afraid,u have to show her the right path .

when i was 4 years i went to lkg ,that time itself i felf my mom will feel so much departing me for whole day ,so i cried to tell her i cud understand her feelings......mmmmmmmmmm ,puduchutu poi schoola vitutanga

Oh tha-mey.....

• You are such a loving mother


• Life can never be the same always....


• You and ur lil baby have to upgrade to a new level of communication


• Now buckle up get ur darling daughter into school...remember each day she doesn't go ...she is missing out on settling down at school...in the normal routine....


• U are not doing any good (for her and for ur self) by keeping her with u all day..the little comfort both of u r getting by not sending her is not permanent...u know that don't u...


• Hey take the school going as a postive step ( it is ....no doubt ) ...remember its ur attitude that seeps into ur child as well....u make things interesting for her and she will love the idea of going to school


• When ur baby is at school.....u can do lotsa things for urself and for the lil one as well