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A typical weekday in everyone's home would start like this...
In that case i'm lucky enough
As i have a maid at home who will cook almost everything. Just have to help her
My husband's shift starts around 4.30-5.00 in the evening. So no packing dinner for him.
I have to get my kid ready for school(from giving her bath to feeding her breakfast), pack her lunch bag and drop her to school.
No quarrels between MIL n FIL, The only time i'll be upset is when i'm going to have my periods. Thats when i'll lose my temper, scream at my kids, hubby.
Normally i dont lose my temper and let my BP go high.Usually I am a relaxed person.. I dont let situations impact me.. I am basically like that from childhood.
I have never let exams or marks make me nervous or tensed..
Dont have to wake up early and prepare food and other stuff.. I come home late in the nights.. and wake up late in the morning. My mom takes care of the cooking.
Servant maid is there for washing utensils only.. so not much of a dependence on her. I wake up and take care of the rest of the domestic work and leave to office late.
Thanks to my mother without whom i wouldnt have been what I am today. She takes care of my daughter, my husband when I am away from home or late from work.
Dont stay with my mother-in-law.. so not much of issues from that end as well. Even when I was staying with her.. we never had much of a difference of opinion and hence no tensions.
The only time when i get tensed is whenever i lose something..
. Am kind of absent minded at times.. and when my husband comes back and says "You should learn to be more careful in life"
.. Cant blame him much as well..
.. Keep pondering on why am i so absent minded though i promise myself that i will be more careful each time i lose something.. and i feel like
my husband for pointing that out.. as he knows that is my weakness... and i get irritated when he asks me, for goodness sake, whether i am keeping all my things safe and came back with the all the things that i went out with.. I feel tensed whenever i lose something.. Not that i am afraid of my husband.. but i always wanted to prove him back i am more responsible and careful.. and i can handle things on my own... and it is a failure from my end...every time.. (Yeah i know i am shameless
)...I will always think.. "Cha ippadi pannitiye.. konjam jagaradhaiya iruka maatiya akhila, eppo thaan thirundha poriyo??"..
Otherwise i feel rest of the things are manageable and temporary in nature and i dont break out into a sweat for that.. not worth it... 