Wow Habi....so you are the first one to start off a blog on this topic. Very good.

I can't really beleive that there are still people who dont even see their husbands until the first night leave alone the wedding.

Have a wonderful and blessed Married Life!

Hey Habi...nice to read ur experiences...but as Vaidehi said, I was surprised to know that u din meet him or even see his snap before wedding !!! Athuvum enna mathiri romba koothu adichavangalukku ithellam romba alien nana matter....

Im sure u have enjoyable  years ahead !!!

Thanks Vai & Shobs....

well... a good example to prove that its all fate nothing in our hands...ultimately we see or dont see the groom doesnot make a difference...but then i have also known people who have called off marraiges at the last minute due to mis understandings !! i feel u are lucky...very lucky........

Nice...very nice....especially so good of him to make you continue ur studies...

u r very lucky....

Habi...........Nee ivalo nalavalama................Gud that you got a good life partner. So  the first person to start of the romantic blog and hats off to your husband for supporting u to study.I wish ,may your me filled up fully with joy and happiness.wishes to your husband and Suliaman................

Thanks Srividya, kg3(sorry i dono ur name ya) & Uma.

@ Uma are you believing that I'ma good girl?

Enapa ellam summa padichithu mattum pooringa votu poddungapa....................

Hey .......... naan sonatha nee namburiya.......................

Summa kethen pa.... publica manatha vaangathinga.....

Habi, how nice..?! I used to have a best friend(when i was a kid, she was my 'only' best friend!!) named Shabeena, who got married in a similar fashion. I hv lost contact with her..

U are lucky to have an understanding partner. U love the person more only when he respects your feelings..

But enakku oru doubt..? U didnt see him till..., but did he also not see u or ur pic..? Just a doubt..?

Kandippa vote undu..!

@Anu

thanks ya. He too left the decision to his mother. But he saw me on our engagement photoes. That time he was in Kuwait. His brother sent the photoes.

hey...how shoudl i cast my vote?? Im new to this group...Habi...vote venumna enakku eppadi vote podanum-nu sollanum...pls...btw, my name is gayathri.

salaams habi,

still wonder how u agreed to marry without even seeing the groom..

ur hubby  did the right thing--to ask ur willingness, as in  islam  one cannot marry without the other persons consent.

alhamdulillah, ur happy  and may u remain the same forever.GOD BLESS.

 hey habi really u r great ya,pakama yae ok solli iruka, othukuren ne nalla ponnu dhan  nu othukren,im relly happy tht u hav got such a nice person as ur hubby

@ Hasina...

Wasalam. Yeah Hasina. My hubby is involved & following the religeous & so he wanted me to give my reply.

@ Gayathri(Kg3)

First of all welcome to our moms Community. Sure I need your vote ya. Below each blog you can see I like it option. If you click that then your vote will be counted for that blog. Hope you are enjoying with us...

Thanks Gayu Arun

Habi,

I can see only "Forward to friends" option. I like it option is not there. Any idea why???

Gayathri,

You can see right side below your blog(can you see Tags & Share this Option? just opposite side of this is I Like this option)

hi habi,

Our both marriage's  story are little bit same. I studied upto +2 after tat i didn't continue my studies due 2 some family problem so i discontinued my studies .But on ponnu pakrathu day my hubby & his parents told me to continue my studies. They said that their daughter-in-law should have atleast a degree holder.so after my marriage i continued my studies & took BBA course in madras university.  i finished my third year degree and now waiting for my results.now they are asking me to do MBA. i am lucky 2 ve a great in-laws & hubby.

so creeche.......................

very happy for u Habi....................

yeah loki,

my in-laws too forcing to do MBA. But with my Little devil & that too in abroad alone as working definetly not possible.

Thanks Amirtha.

Salam Dear Habi!

                              High Risk Habi. Ugalluku Marriage annaikuthan luv start ayirukku..Anna unga husuku kalyanathirku munnadhiye ungalla romba puduchurukkunu theriyidhu....avaru appothillae errundae ungale luv panni kittu than irrukkaru plus ungae maella trusttu appatulae irrundae irruku (....really lucky yarMashaallah! appavae ungala manasula bathiramai vachutarru...... E-dhu endairkum nellaithida ennadhu valthukkal.....Hat's off  2  d luv,respect,belief u hav on ur Mom(ur mom deserves such a luv frm u as c has borne so muc pains).....................Not all daughters would willingly b like u.....Hope u hav a really gud time ahead!!.........but Dear Habi...chinna chinna padapadapu ,,..sandhoshangal...anbana parvai....edhuellam  Miss panitigaenu nenaikkurein......partyirrundurukkalamae..vaera onnum illai unga facela eppadi oru blushing irrudurrukum .......and E-nda niyabagangallaeyum negae engolloda share pani irrunduruppengae..............................

May Allah shower ur with more happiness than ever and May dis last forever!Ameen!

With loads of luv and Regards,

Saabira

Hi Saabira,

Wasalam Dear.

First of all thanks for all your words. In our family no meeting of Bride & Groom before marraige. But many breake the rule where I'm following it very strictly. Not only this rule, I'm following all my Family Rules, since I feel those rules will lead my life with sucess.

Cheers...

Habi

 Kairasiyana Arambam Habi!!  Many stories followed...

Moral of your story - "Vazhkainnu vanthutta vazhanum.. athile patha enna pakkatta enna" ... pathu .. pesi.. pazhaki.. kalyanam panninalum antha bondkku entha guarantee yum kudukka mudiyathu!.. anyway.. the bond and understanding after the marriage is what takes you forward..!"

My votes for your trust in your mother and husband!

Thanks Nisha....

Wait panni parhthen yaaravadu blog pannuvangalanu...

Mudiyala athan naane start pannithen.

He he he...

amaaaa where is urs???????????????

Take my Vote Habi..

Life mella enna oru Namibikai..Too good Madam.Keep up your spirit.

Hey Vani thanks yaa...

good to read u'r story habi. here goes my vote....

yeah..very nice expressions :P... my vote too...

Thanks nirmala & Sangy...

salam habi!

you are sure to win a lot of vote for your blog that you have narrated so cutely (especially the conversation part )

Insha allah may you two be as happy as this forever and ever!!

Hey sudha...

Wasalam.

Thanx for your comments  & as well good to know that you knew some Islamic words tooo...

Indha kaalathula ippadi oru ponna ??? Nice to know about u and ur bravo !!!

Wishing u many more wonderful years ahead with ur sweet hubby !!!

Thanx Apharna

rombha nalla ponnu habi neenga :) convey my salutes to ur husband.... he understood ur interest in studies nd supported it.... thats a very nice thing to do :)