Sweet Nothings- Gifted wife's Love Story
Tags : Sweet Nothings- Gifted wife's Love Story
- January 28, 2010 13:51
- 56 Comments
True to the above heading, I am a gifted wife for a loving, caring, understanding hubby and a super dad for my son.
.Mine is a love marriage 
a very different and unique one .
My Love story starts like this .. I was not ready for love 
and thought I cannot be loved nor I am capable of loving after all that I had gone through and difficult sad times. 
. I contacted him over mail to ask if he was sure and has he really read my profile?. He says it is fine with him and he wants to consider only special cases.. after few mail exchanges of what we are looking for in each other.. take it to next level of general mails of pleasantries. I was very curious
to know the real reason for he selecting my profile otherwise who would choose. We both share our photos. He was /is smart looking and me a plump girl.
hmm. After a month.. it so happens that i go to his place - madurai on official purpose.
. we thought it would be a good time to meet in person and talk further if both r interested.. That was the day jun 18th 2004 we cannot forget as it had become a turning point in my life.
and thought he was making fun of me..I called his mobile from the hotel reception( I did not have mobile at that time) to say that I am going back and he need not come.. But I could not say that and instead listened to him saying that he is on his way to the hotel. hmm.. I waited after seeing that he is coming..I consciously tried to sit with my back to the entrance 
so that he will have to find me out and moreover I was angry . Actually speaking I did not recognize him as I did not remember the photo he had sent. He zooms in, looks into my eyes, takes a 5 star chocolate from his pocket and gives me..he said he couldn't get a flower 
so got me the chocolate and then rushes me to the restaurant.. I was like lost.. my whole anger melted, my heartbeats peaks, my palms sweat, butterflies in my stomach.. I was not able to talk properly to him. He takes me a corner table where I am positioned only to look at him directly and nothing else.
. Then we directly hit the subject of matrimony and I was asking him the reasons to accept my case. He answers simply saying that long time he had the desire to adopt a child..( reason- flashback story in his child hood days – this he said later) and it would be good if he can adopt my child itself.. Since adopting a child and then he marrying or marrying and then adopting might get into issues with his wife.. marrying a lady with her child would work out good for him..hmm.. somehow he convinced me and the way he said I assumed that he is okay to proceed further and I was happy that my life will settle now.. but no so easily 
…
with butterflies in my stomach.. We ended our conversation around 5 o'Clock. i came out of the restaurant dreamy eyed as an teenager with full hopes that my life will be normal again.. and infact I found that I was having a mad crush on him which I thought was bad but it felt good and kept up my spirits.. my inner self was in turmoil 
as I had not experienced such a feeling before in my life.
..I knew that my son will jell well with him as he had not seen his biological father.. and i knew my hubby would be a great dad for him which he is.. I accepted.. and my parents too who had not seen him nor talked to him..
. After he said about me to his parents , there was lots of opposition from his parents and relatives and friends.he convinced his parentsand brothers and in the meantime before even convincing them.. he asked me to ask my parentsto look for a date for marriage.. I was kind of . .. but cutting the looong story short.. from the date of proposal it was only 1 month time for the marriage and this 1 month he was at his place madurai convincing his parents.. 
Just 1 day before, his parents came to c me.. and gave lots of advices and got me thali and saree
. we had a simple small wedding in vadapalani temple the next day morning.. 
we gave a sigh of relief that atlast we got married . . Their whole family along with relatives have accepted me with love- main reason was our son who is so very lovable.
.. what is binding is the love, care, respect and understanding we have for each other and most importantly our son., I have to end it with only 
. this is his rule... he calls himself a love terrorist 
and will do anything under the sun if I say I love him 
with passion.. I rarely remember my bad sad old days.
than me that makes me jealous sometimes. He feeds him, gives him bath, teaches him. and does all things possible for him and also he is the one who can manage him.. we 3 often have pillow fights which is so nice and releases all the tensions..continues .. but I will conclude it now in this very first 
blog of mine and i think a very looong one too.. 
56 comments so far. What are your thoughts?
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MY God Chitra.....mind blowing...too good...im at a loss of wordds...so nice of your husband and good for him that he has such a lovely wife...
Cheers and all the very best to your marriage...
Superb...!! It sounds straight out of a movie plot!
I really appreciate the love and care that your hubby and others in his family have given you. In an age where people find fault with everyone, its really nice to hear your story. Its a fitting example for others too to see the positive side and live happily. Please pass on my appreciation to your husband.
Reall........y superb ya
I felt very happy, while read your blog, even me also a widow, so I know the difficulties and feelings, now I felt very very much happy, even my happiness which I couldnt describe it doubled I think, I know men mostly very selfish nowadays but in your life God gives you good, better partner, I thank God to give you happiest life, and I will pray for you till your whole life you should filled up with happiest flowers
Thank God " God is Great"
we hardly get to know about "perfect man / gentle man" and i am so happy that "U" found one such. Its great to know that you are having a gud time nw.
Chithra,
This was truly a good read. Kudos to your husband and his family for being so good.
Your husband truly was a very jovial person from the brief meeting we had the other day.
thank you girls for the supporting and kind words .. I was not sure what would people comment on this blog..
WOW..........chitra
very nice of your husband character.u must be very lucky to have a wonderful hubby.
i think god had done some mistaken on ur previous married life now he recognised his mistake and gave u a POKKISHAM(ur hubby).
god bless u & ur family.
No words to appreciate your husband. He found you as precious one for him.
Have a great year ahead...
Hey Chitra, ur blog is gud and 
to ur hubby..................wish u more and more happiness in ur life..........ur husband is also lucky to get u..........................
I feel very happy for you Chitra..........
Hats off to your husband.... so great of him,,,,,,,,,,,God bless u and your beautiful family......
Here goes my vote for you.........
Hey thank you girls for your wishes and your vote..
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After coming home, showed my hubby this blog.. avalo dhaan ore konjals though he did not read it saying its too long a blog.. and why to read when i know in and out of your thoughts.. ..
And believe me girls.. i have often felt he reads my mind - telepathy or something.. at any given time.. he know what i think of.. i tested it quite few times.. and all were exact on dot...
My vote for ur husband who is a rare personality. He has done something which many many men wud hesitate to do.
may god bless u to live happily many more years to come.
superb blog chitra,really u have got such a nice person as ur husband,may god bless ur family to live long life happily ,my vote s dedicated to ur hubby
Chitra.....
Though i knew all this before still reading it again through your blog was very nice...and my vote is defintely for you since i know all of it is true and I always have felt great about your husband....and defintely the gut feeling you had. May teh love you guys share increase every year along with little silly fights you do and end with a K..S. with luv GAYA
Hey Chitra,
Ur blog made nicereading. Kudos to ur hubby and his family for this bold decision. And not to forget ur friends who inspired u to advertise in shaadi. Here goes my vote to all those who made this possible. May god shower u with all the happiness and blessings in life....
Here goes my vote..
not just for the blog... for the love and bond you three share!! God bless you both and your kid!
Its nice to know that world is still humane !!! Hats off to ur husband...and the votes r jus for ur hubby and his fmly...its difficult get a package like this....Wish u more happy and wonderful years ahead !!!
LOVE MEANS WITHOUT EXPECTING ONE SHOULD LOVE ie unconditional love
the example of true love YOUR HUSBAND AND YOURSELF
VALENTINES DAY PARTY YOU BOTH DESERVE IT (sorry others if i said anything wrong this is my view becoz t i feel this is very true love)
hi gifted and lucky wife,,,
a true love story with only love, love and love...... TONS AND TONS OF APPRECIATIONS to your loving, affectionate, caring husband
wishing u many more happy days in future.....
yes chithra, i am just patting myself for my memory power, i remember you sharing your then status when we were chosen as partners in the PROPEL session but was confused when I saw you in the MAMMA MIA thought that is someother chithra or a mistaken identity 
Yes unconditional love is very difficult to get (especially knowing all your facts), anu sonna mathiri your husband is really a great person and a top class gentleman.
Hello Chitra definitely my vote goes for u too. As vaidehi said kandippa sutthi podunga. Wish u happiness always
Hi Chitra , only in movies i hve seen such stories. Blessed u are to share your life with such a wonderful person . My respects to your in-laws . May God bless the beautiful family ...
. Here's my vote for true love...
reading your blog .. i cud visualize evry word of urs ... May u all 3 b blessed always !
Love story, movie style..! And very well written, too..! I really enjoyed reading ur blog.
Wishing u a wonderful Valentine's Day and a deserving Dinner(!) in advance.!!
Enjoy
AFTER WINNING VALENTINES'S DINNER PLS GIMME A (us) TREAT AT BOMBAY BLUE (old name of resturant) 
((next to alliance damn good better try once if not
visited)
convey this to ur hubby too (my spl treat request may be on ur bday or ur hubbys bday
or on wedding day , anyday will do , sure i will give gift too)
waiting for ur reply
Hey, since the voting for blogs began, i think, this is the one blog that has received the maximum number of votes..22+....Super..!
wow.. girls thanks for your wishes and votes.. feeling very happy for receiving so many positive comments. I showed my husband and he too was very happy saying that he never received so many positive comments when he married me against so many advices of not to..
Sure suthi podaren.
to keep our family happy .
Sadhanashankar. where is the place your are saying bombay blue.. can u give me exact location.
| College Road Nungambakkam Chennai - 600 034 |
||
| Next to Alliance Francaise | ||
BOMBAY BLUE IS 2 blgs NEXT TO ALLIANCE FRANCAISE AT COLLEGE ROAD
(new name of restraurant also starts with some blue only )
SIZZLERS ARE DAMN GOOD (last week only i went with my friends)
BEST PLACE TO PARTY
Chitra. Im in Kuwait. But when I'm back to India you sould give me a treat for winning this contest.
Chitra ....
I am really short of words..I just read it fully and also once more - It is not the love that is visible in the story - it is the soul of two good people which is being visible there - I am not only appreciating your hubby and you get the equal credit as well .. Certain decisions are always tough in life to take and it is all the more tough to stand by it .. You should be so lovable .. Thatz y ur hubby's love is growing each day...
Let the love live long ...
Wow,it's sure very nice to see such people exist in world...
My wishes to ur hubby and u for finding the very right person!
Sure,your son must be enjooying with his dad!!! Yes a very bold and great decision by all of your family members,hats off to them!!!
Indeed a great and true love story, Chitra. My vote for both you and your hubby....
I always had the curisiotiy to know what these below line really mean
"Tell Me the reason why you love me & let the reason be Love" ..U r life story summarsied all..
God Bless u all
hey chitra...
congrats for the max number of votes..u deserve it all....
aana...nee kandippa enga ellarukkum treat kodukanum...
gals...yaarum vidatheenga pa...pls....
hi chithra,
i am really lost yaar......
sometimes i think god is not there, when ever i meet ppl with evil herats i feel god is no where...
but when i saw your blog i feel god is now here
really touched with you 3 ppl....
may god bless u dear
thank you very much dear cmoms for your hearfelt wishes.
Mehar.. as u said i too had that phase in life that i thought god is not there and even did not go to temples for i was angry with him.. but now life is going good and i have no complaints..
lesson is have patience and believe in God.take it like 'Everything is for good only'. 
CHITRA CONGRATS for winning (as of today 30 votes) (THE VALENTINE DINNER IS SURE for u (and ur husband)
BUT when u going to gve TREAT (BOMBAY BLUE) FOR ME (us 
) after 14th or b4 14th
pls let me(us) know
Jayshree
Really u deserve it Chitra ........................engaluku treat kuduka maranduratinga.......................treat enga vachu kudukuringanu solidunga ma...........
Good chitra,U hv chosen a right person at a right time(when ur son is a kid at that time),
May God bless u and ur family,and my vote is for u
CHITRA u r silent now (after WINNING )
(unfortunetely restruarant which i was saying CREAMY CENTRE near alliance francis is a
vegetarian , i dont know whether u will like it but parava illaey just for treat u can take me 
)
hello jeyasree.. surely i will give treat
when i see u all even if i don't win . .
and yes i prefer veg food no issues on that. when i go to that area i will suerely eat in that place u mentioned.
I'm at loss of words...blessed son and blessed mom...a perfect gentleman. May god bless you with same happiness throughout your life. Like Radhika, I too thought such kinda charecters exist only in movies or fiction...awestruck to learn there is someone flesh and blood on earth like him....hats off to yr hub. and to earn such a credit from yr mother in law and his fmaily members( its not easy even for a normal girl and for a single mother its almost totally impossible) you too shd be so gooood,adjusting and caring..so u deserve this beautiful life...made for each other perfect couple. pray u win the valentines dinner.
i'm so very happy for u chitra :) god bless u three :) hats off to ur husband, mil and the entire family!
Chirtra just 4 days left ..... as of now SO U R THE WINNER ( 39 votes ...?).for the VALENTINES DINNER
so eppo giving me the treat
Hi Chitra,
I had tears in my eyes while reading ur blog.....such a beautiful and moving story......my wishes to u and ur husband....praying to God that u get all love and affection from ur family.....I am really touched by ur story.....
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