Hi moms.....

U all know well abt me....I got married on Sep 11 2008,

And Expecting  baby soon...No planning nothing because...........

Enaku periods hey aadikku oru vatti amavasaiku oru vatti varum more over am gundu...so Baby pirakumannu oru doubt thaan...I dint go for any treatment...After marriage once am not well so went to doc she said get a preg test done..its negative...am so sad...she said U should undergo treatment for atleast 3 yrs then oly chances to get conceive nu oru gundu thooki pottuta intha gundu ponnu mella

Then days running sucessfully,One day i started feeling giddiness when i bend down..suddenly called to my hubby and said..thala romba girrnu suthuthu pa nan keela kunija...enaku romba bayama iruku brain tumour ah irukumo nu..he laughed nothing de...(Note- Enaku chinna vali vantha kuda atha nan Nan perusupadithipen)

After then one day…we had stomach full @krishna sweets…and while returning home we thought getting preg card….b4 tat we hve cheked many times(3-4 times)negative..but tis time I din show any excitement ..went home..i gave urine sample..my hubby eagerly waiting ..i told him Yen pa unaku antha oru kodu pakkalana thookam varadha pls…vendam gopi I said..he said ok tis s the last time..then after giving the sample…I was having water…went to kitchen…he came and said double lines re seen(positive nu)but I replied arandavan kannuku irundathellam pei…poya…nu..Then he showed me Surprise OMG..am lucky …gonna be a mom…I never expected this would really happen n my life…..I was so happy..went to doc..came and evrthing went good…

During my 3^rd month…I had severe abdominal pain..so my MIL,FIL,nathanaar,nathanaar son evry1 went to st.thomas mount hospital…a gynaec lady s  there..neenga avangakita katunga nu..she asked me hav water more..we can do a scan…after drinking water me waiting ..Waiting…whole family waiting. except my hubby(he don’t knows he s n office)Sca started..she s searching on my tummy with tat prob…for than 10 mins and asked who said ure pregnant nu…am shocked I said we came here only and confirmed..etc…she asked to get a pregcolour card again…im lil bit tensed nervous…Again tested While doin the test she s asking me pray to god tat no baby shuld be there bcos if its there itll be in tubic..so we shuld do abortion…Asa new mom how I felt..result came..as  positive..she told the same…Unga karpapaila karuve kidaiyathu…may be u got positive due to hormonal imbalance or karu(foetus) ll be in fallopian tube..ectopic pregnancy..today too ill say to my hubby…antha dubakur doctor en kaila mattna..ava galli nu…oru otta scanning machine vechitu romba perisa scene ottna…

After tat hubby came..so sad changed doctor…was going good with 1 injection twice a day for 4 months… ..Dr.Anitha partha sarathy…AMC,Tnagar…she s sweet doctor I cannot forget n my life..she ll encourage me well..in everything..Then again had my High BP…..monthly chek up I use to get scolding bcos of BP…then finally day came..all were curious..she said u ll deliver baby within may month end or june 1^st week..Valaikapu on May 15^th…May 24 got pain ,dilated…but doctor said baby s only 32-33 weeks…so lets wait for one more week…so 1 week rest…I shouldn’t do anything…conting started…im so afraid..abt delivery…Even b4 the day to asmit…I called aall ma frendz who gave birth and asked how it ll be…etc….Unforgettable joke..My servant lady said Surukkunu Erumbu kadikkara madhiri irukkum aparam papa vanthudum nu….Hahaha…after giving birth thought of first meeting her and hitting….dubakur appadiya solluvanga….Then …Finally the day has come..Packed all the thngs..ready with  my dress..A loose t shirt and a skirt…Confirmly my doc said ull get 100 percent normal delivery nu….

May 30 th Fresh ah kalaila elunthu kulichu kelambi….achu..but nothing I had..then went to nursing home..alloted me room no 5…My mo,dad,Hubby,FIL,Mil all re tensed…they said u have dilated 2 cms..i hve kept a suppository..soon u ll get pain..

Trips given…was getting pain around 12 o clock..but they said illa innum vali varanumnu…then again a bottle….got pain by 3..they said innum pain varanum…In Between my mom asked Nurse kitta En ma inum vali varala ndra..onnoru bottle eehthuvangala..I Replied aahma ma ethuvanga…mela ulla roomla(meant Operation theatre)Aiyo Aiyo…enna ithu china pulla thanama…nan kalailirunthu sonnen gals..that c section panunga na kekamatrenga…

@5 doc came..asked me en de ponne vali nalla varalaiya…I replied varala doctor..come lets go to c section ward…she smiled and called me in..

I thought the pain has come and gonna deliver..Ulla kooptadhume..i showeed tatabye to my family members and said varamodhu en paiyanoda varenu..

Then after going in..panikudatha udaichi vittutanga…..Yuppa…Ippave kanna katudhe…And trips going parellely….oru vaysana ayyama…kidu kidu nu irunthga….well bult..hahaha..avangala pidichu nan steps eri eri irungunumam….avangala pathathume enak sirippu…Athaiyam poruthukittu.climbing Up..down up down…up ..down..pain increased…shifted to another labour qward in upstairs…waited waited..Atlast Said..papa thala pushing toward to come…but his cord around the leg…nu…taken me to THEATRE….Appada…ithathan nan appave sonnene,Then they immediately called all doctors..emergency scissarian..aneasthist vandharu pa kadavul madhri ..viboothi lam vechitu vanthu surukku nu Mudhukula eethinaar….again, Again…finally got succeed @3^rd time and  did c section.Soon my doc said going to take the baby..nu…Got my Precious Boy baby……….I kissed him….I smiled @ him loudly doc said no u shuldnt…

After coming from ward too…I m so jovial…making jokes…laughing…With my sweet son..

En Iniya Urave varuga varuga….Unnai enndrathutha en pathu madhangal…sila nimidangal poll thondrina…..unnai parhta pin...My sweet son ANesh Kumar................I like u so much......