Tags : The Chennaimoms Effect on me - Asathapovadhu Chennaimoms
Chennaimoms - The magical word
which drives each and every day of
my present life.
I still remember the day ....when one of my friend Anu sent me the link of
chennaimoms and asked me to post my daughter's photo for the Women's day
Contest.
Initially I was like...big 'No'
bcos I never like the site which asks for registration and then proceed..Huh..adhu oru periya thalaivali...
Somehow she convinced me and made me to register ....
I browsed through the site and found some interesting as well as funny stuffs...Then I thought " Idhu kooda nalla irukum pola" 
But then I was not able to post comments or write scraps..was waiting to get
confirmation call from Admin.It was in no time..say 2 days ...I received the call
and my identity proved.
Yahoooooooooooooo....I was in to the world of Joy,friendship,fights,gossips..which I did not knew before..
I posted some 3 or 4 photos...for the contest.
Everyday I used to check ...Yarachu enaku vote panni irukangala.....Yeah....there were some good hearts who did consider me.
That made me interesting...and committed..
I should somehow reveal my thanks to the moms.....so therinjavanga
theriyadhavanga ...who all participated in the photo contest... ellarukum vote
potachu..
My first scrap entry was written by Kg3....who was none other than my
schoolmate...we both were in the same class from 3rd std - 12th std.
Got back one of the missed friend of school days.
Then followed..Loki , Sowmi....the rest I started asking for the friendship bond.
I got relocated to Pune on June 15th 2009 and I joined this site on March
2010.Since June - March( 9 Months )...I was like ..."yarachu namma kitta
pesamatangala..tamil pesardha kooda naan
marandhuduvena"
...U know I was the only lady member in my team of 12
persons...Every meeting,outing..whereever I went I was mum.
....which is not
my nature..I am ...literally to say is a
chatter box..oota vai..i cud not hide secrets....something like loda loda
...I am losing all..All said "Vel is so calm..." and I thought " Enakula
thoongitu iruka Singam oru naal veliya varum" and it
was done only by cmoms.![]()
My usual routine work as soon as I enter office (Before i signed up in cmoms)....
1.Come to office
2.Fill the water bottle
3.Open the laptop - Outlook,Remedy,Dinakaran,Dinamalar.Dinathanthi,Bubble
shooter,gmail,gtalk......
Newspaper is my only comfort...all the 3 papers had the same content..yet i
used to read all...boring boring boring..how to spend my 9 hrs...?
But now...time is just like that..I wish I cud be in office for another 5 hrs
also...bcos once my shift time ends..I need to abruptly cut down my
conversation with my frens.."Thirumba nalaiku poi
pesara varaikum wait pannanum..." 
Only my 7 college friends was my life...but now the diameter getting increased
day by day...I cud see a big friend's circle around me.
Now I did not bother for the state / country affairs..what's happening around
me....I am addicted to only CMOMS...I never browse other sites except when I
need any technical assistance...
What happened to me...Friends mattum thaan ulagama...thought my mind...But
yes ..."They say everything whatever I needed..in surfing"....
I could feel the blossom of more love and affection from some of my friends
and it was blooming day by day.I cud never resist myself from talking to
them...Apart from normal chat..we did
have voice chat (over telephone)... followed by video chat..so happy and
energetic to see my friends on the other side...
I had a raised a thought in my mind..I have many children..not only
Anumita...other kids like
..Rithik,Anesh,Abijith,Pranav,Rishi,Adina,Ilakiyan,Sadhana,Imanu,Deeksha,Kavya,Jyotsana,Raghavarshini,Ashwath,Rahul,Shruthi,Swathi,Nidhi,Dhanya,Nakshatra,Shreya,Sharan,Karthik,Abinav,Arnav,Anubav,Sanju,Ranju
and many more kids...So yarakachu edachu problemna
.....I feel it in my heart and give suggestions as if it is for my kid...At
times I do give funny comments...Many more take it for granted.
When it came to writing blogs..there were many moms who encouraged me to
write....even though am not a good writer and narrator.
I love sending Morning messages...through which I could keep good contacts
with many moms....whom I could not scrap on regular basis also.
"Kitta irundhal mutta pagai"...was in my case also....Cherishing with Love and
affection on one side....I even had tough times in CMOMS
...there were
some misunderstandings....gossips,fights...at one stage..I was like "Get the rid
out from here".....sorted out with the help of Admin...Kudos to her...Thanks for
making me stay back.
All my team members call me Chennaimom....Bcos they could only see that site opened on my browser in my laptop.
I ofcourse feel proud..being called so...
The only disadvantage.... am facing after logging in CMOMs is -
1.Left the habit of reading news papers
2.Chat time with team members in break out room
3.Conference calls for longer time..bcos of which ...at times extension getting debarred....
4.ALT and TAB key thenji pochu..letters ellam azhinji pochu
bcos I keep on oscillating between my application and cmoms.
5.Jai always say "Veetuku vandha kooda CMOMs thana"
But I feel " Ellam nanmaikey"
Finally...I love being a member of this forum....so lively and friendly.
Now I cud stronlgy say " Dare to make amazing friends - Log in to CMOMS"
-Vels
vowww.....nice.... very natural and right from the heart description....competition kalai kattirucheeeeee...
vel.. semma sooper... and thanks for mentioning sharan in your list of kids... i am very happy...
my vote for you.. !!1
aiyo vel nalla sonna de
unoda blog padichi romba nal aachu
and oru super dooper blog pottu kalakitta de
unnoda true feeling ezhuthi iruke and me too feel the same thing ma
enga veeltle en hubby enna chennai momnu than kupduvaru
and interestingliy he was asking me whos that LPN always flashing on ur desktop
anthalvuku ne enga veetle popular ma
and i even dnt like weekends bcoz i miss this cmom site da
good luck cmoms la nalla enjoy pannu sorry enjoy pannalam
heres my vote to u
Vels...as usual straight from the heart...Moved ...when u had mentioned Shreya...Tks dear...
Definitely my vote for u !! For who else??
Vel... Cmoms is a replica of our day-to-day life...
We meet persons with so many different attitudes and views of life.. some matches with our vibes.. some doesn't... I had this problem of adjusting with those who did not match my vibes here and in real life... and wondered why they did not think like me..!!! and of course.. as you said.. chennaimoms taught me that tolerance... and this tolerance level and this awareness has helped me in real life too...
Your blog is a message.. my votes for you!
Vel, superb da, nejama wat ever i feel u have conveyed da... I was also one point addicted to wards it ,, even now , but have been missing feew looties, blog, and answers for few days..
Its really a good one ma, enjoy pannu, kalaku da.
Irukartulaye ne sonatula alt and tab tenji pochunu sonna paru.. atu tan comedy part hehahhahaha.
Cheers da
Thank - Nisha and Yoga..
Yoga - Namalala konja naal cmoms la kooda chat box work pannama irundhuchey..adha marandhutiya?
..avalo kadalai...
Hey vel,,,seriously im running out of time da...but wel written as usual....u rock dear..my vote goes here
Thanks Ramya and Amals
Amals- seekiram velaiya mudi..waiting for ur treat for completing ur masters...
Vel , as usual it is a great blog dear
. here is my vote ... ( I need to check with admin why they are restricting as one Vote only , from one person , i feel like putting kalla votes also for this blog but it is not allowing me
)
Hi Vels,
Your blog is outcome of my words in my heart. I also really feel the same. Now i have changed my Department in my office, where i dont have time to browse. Nijamave, idha paarkama paithiyam pudichudum pola irukku. My vote for you for bringing out my feelings.
Thanks Buna and Sheela...
Sheela- do find time on sat and sun to check out the site
Buna - kalla vote podra option irundha naney niraya potuka matena....
good one vel. clearly understood ur feelings on this link.. wishing u for a very long run in cmoms ,i hve a request why cant u continue ur earlier work of posting thirukurral? that was agood one pls continue that.. vat else u deserve a vote here...
Vel,ithaana peru solli irukaanga,naan thaniya vera sollanuma,
I could feel ur emotions then and there.as usual ur writing is soooo good.
Vel - Nee Down to Earth blogs ezhutharathula Maharaani-nnu prove pannita - AGAIN!

And last-a nee koduththa caption SUPERB!
" Dare to make amazing friends - Log in to CMOMS"
Vanjapugazhchi PUNCH kelvipattirukken! Ithu enna jolly mirattal Punch! Ithukke oru spl O! podalaam!

Hey vel ... sorry for my late comment on ur blog de. Ippa than padichen... amazing.... asusual well writen.. my vote for ur blog and i very well knw that u r addicted to this site.. Keep rockingggggggggggggggg.......................................................... pune le irukum chennaimom!
as usual well written Vel! and thanks for mentioning sadhana name also in ur list.
My vote for you!!!
Typical Vel blog..! I hv always been amazed(sometimes J also
) at how Vel manages to post comment for each & every blog and tries to answer most questions..! Vel, no wonder any blog from u receives a torrent of comments almost instantly.! U are a Star..
But i m suprised to read that u faced 'tough times' in cmoms.!
Great..!!I like..!
Hellloooo sandhadi chaakula Treata...nee than treat kudukanum cmoms pic contest win panni riukala!!!
Thanks - Vai,Anu
Thamil - Marapom,manipom...so marandhuten all those bad times ....recall panna mudiyadhu
Amals- Nee enaku onnu thara vendiyadhu iruku..aana adha PM la anupita..remember?
Sooooo nice b-log... Very good narration... Good job....
I enjoy reading all your b-logs... Here goes my vote for U dear...
i Vel, really..... very well written blog. .....lots of love and here is my vote love viraja
thank me for reading such a biiiiiiiiggggggg blog.....
I remember you posting lot of blogs everyday..I know u were too active.
well written...votes for u
Sorry Vel for reading this a bit late. nicely written. All your words are from the heart. My vote for you.