Kids Eating Habits and lack of support systems like Maids, Cooks, Drivers etc., Kutty

1.Missing the help from extended family as nuclear family has increased 2.Making daily Menu interesting to the kids. 3.Getting Admission in good Schools 4.Helping kids complete their home work in time. 5.Taking care of the Health of their kids. 6.Keeping kids away from TV, Playstation and other gaming activities 7.Keeping the kids engaged during weekends and holidays (what activity to put them into, finding them play mates etc).

The only problem a YOUNG mother would face is immaturity to deal with the various situations when u have a child....Universally motherhood brings an irreversible change in the life of a woman...to enjoy that change u need health and maturity (and of course heaps of help from all corners hehehehehe!)

gaima jus summed up what motherhood is all about....gee!...I foresee a tuff life ahead for me....:)...Kutty ...support systems are so scarce we tend to beg,borrow and steal on that count :)

Balancing children's expectations, husband's expectations, in-laws' expectations and parents...even family-based support systems don't come for free ....

yeah we live in a world full of expectations...Wonder whether our expectation will be lost in this "expectation-world" we live in....:)

Top most problem  is not able to take care of ourselves (walking, yoga or exercises). Next finding it very difficult to visit a doctor when we are not well( as there is no one to take care of infants at home as parents and inlaws getting older).

the top most problem is losing of our figure and looks after marriage. Most of the indian mom's gets converted to a Cabbage after their first delivery and cover it up of being a dedicated mother having the most naughtiest and unhealthy child.  

I second bhargave...when I syarted yoga and exercise after my delivery, my SIL gave me the dirtiest look implying "how selfish...y do u wanna maintain after a kid,first kid then u"kinda....

Me feel tuffest is balancing all acts, work, kid,cooking,hubby...

Luv

Ridge

yes its difficult being a young mom..I hv gone thru that twice that too after leaving a very high paying job..my kids are now 12 and 6 ..one look at them and I know quitting and spending time with them was worth it....don't loose heart you young moms..enjoy this stage of your life...

 i think the most pblm is not spend the time for me,ex yoga,exercise,bathing,eating,and extra..whenever my child is sleep thenonly i take my activity.second pblm is childs eating pblm.

I think top most problem is not finding the personal space with husbabnd and giving time to kid....And then comes the child's eating problem

To quit the job or not? - This worry is the biggest problem which leads to the following :)

Salary for better lifestyle of the kids? Or quality time with them for their good? Or can we balance both? Why can't we balance? Am I doing something wrong? etc etc

The biggest problem of a young mother...Playing too many roles, in which the underlying personality gets lost...

Hey girls, don't try to fit 48 hours in one day...relax and breathe..