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Wowfff... I thought I m reading my blog as I m too in the same situation... I also feel that mch frustrated sometimes... Every weekend I plan to go somewhere where there is no cooking, no office..no resposibilities...just relax relax n relax.....but every weekend fly like a bird and I don have time for anything...

May be its a life..and we ppl have habbit to make compromise with each n every situation...that we have to cook, take care of husband, baby and everything related to our life...thats it..

sometimes I just hate the kind of life we r spending....

I'm glad that you gals think the same, i thought there was some problem with me...even i too think the same way.....

Its soooo boring to do the same old thing every day....

I too wait for the weekend so that i can relax from the routine.

Especially when our lifestyles change from what we were before marriage...being pampered by our parents,,,they do it even now, no doubts....i mean we've got used to it soo much that we think this type of lifestyle is for a short period, i dont know what makes me feel so.

I feel our responsibilities and luv for our kids n hubby is what keeps us going in LIFE... 

hi bhavs...very well said..the love element is the only thing which makes us going on day after the day ...through this journey of life...

vinny

Hey gals,

Nice to start this.Actually,for me i can do the work on the other days but not on weekends.Smething stops me,i was thinking i was too lazy,but i've company here

I thot why not leave the routine work atleast on weekends.Any ideas?

i think , i am lucky to be in a nuclear family most of the times.. in spite of my office works .. I need to only work with love only for my husband and kids.I feel proud most of the time that I have handling situations and being a super women most of the time. I pat  myselfand feel proud of my self most of the time...

Its would have been a nightmare if  i was staying with my in-laws , doing my tasks sincearly for them and my family( some time acting to be sincear). Giving ear to their wishes and advices... and doing things half heartedly .

Now i do things according to my wish for the happiness of my loving husband who undergoes the same or more tougher situation like mine during the weekdays.I spend 100 % of my time only to be with my kids and make them happy on saturday and sundays.

I was bought in such a way that I did not know to make a cup of tea till a month or 2 of my marriage...Now I cook very well and have become fond of house keeping. I am not the best like my mother but good for my kids to grow in.

When I become frustated, I ask my husband to take my kids away for a hour or so,leaving me alone in my house else I go to beauty Parlour( or shoping on my own) to get a facial, pedicure and manicure done(1000 RS of my salary --- gone for my happiness). This boosts me a lot and energies me back to action again.