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Having a single child cud be a boon for you as you can give undivided focus to your child. You may be able to give your best to her in education, parental care, time etc. I have two kids and i feel its too tough to handle two kids at a time.  When your child starts playing with her own group of kids, she can learn more from other kids. You can offer her single player games like building blocks and play along with her when she is alone. Teach her how to take care of her work like keeping her things carefully. Give her a daily routine to follow so that she concentrates on those things and forgets her demands. I hope this helps you a little bit in giving u a little soothing :)

Shalini

Hi Jalpa,

I too had that probs with my kid.My son is also single child.but as he grows up,his  adamant behaviour got changed.now hez very close to his friends,shares his things etc.so,dont worry.as time goes,she'll change herself. try to engage her when shez alone at home.becoz this period will not come back.play with her ,enjoy her company.make sure that ur kid is comfortable with u.

I was in similar confusions till recently. But i feel, its better of to have 2 kids. They should have siblings..learning & sharing starts right from the home. I agree that there has to be enough gap between the first & the 2nd to be able for the first to understand & accept the first one. Family need to be build. There are still times , even though im 28 now, i still share & talk with my siblings(i'm the youngest) rather than my mom. Life is always learning ..having siblings, helps a lot ..there are still many which would shared amongst the siblings rather than parents..

I'm not side tracking from the question posed, its a solution rather..you may even try taking your daughter to some hangouts, parks over the weekends..That helps..may be even the cutie-pie needs a break from regular routine :)

Hi,

i am also having single girl child, since her birth i am happy and she is also happy with my company. Please play with your kids like her age group and introduce new things and also say your childhood good jokes and discuss all the good things with him/her. Tnan they will create wonders also and help to him/her for his works and play with him/her. Any how I am happy with my child. For single girl child Kendriya Vidyalaya offering seat at the time of admission in to first class please utilise this facility for your single girl child. I got my child admision in to singe girl child quota only. From 6th class onwards you need not to pay any type of fee for your single girl child(no siblings pls)

regards

kalpana chowdary.

My son of age 5 's urine is always surrounded by ants. Is he diabetic? Bcoz my father and grandparents are diabetic. I'm not. Please help me.

If your son is otherwise fine, Urine surrounded by ants is no indication that someone is diabetic , this is quite a common feature, but because diabetes runs in families so whenever you visit your paediatrician next do discuss your family history with him so that he/she  can keep a watch.

Greetings Doctor,

Hi Natalia,

No 2 kids are same so u cannot compare him with your daughter, From what you have written, doesn’t looks like there is a problem, some kids start speaking late, so if his understanding of things and hearing is all right,don’t worry, just continue talking to him, reading to him and otherwise stimulating him and just relax and enjoy your babies!