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Family Problem

Tags : Family Problem, Family related problems, how to handle the problems with my husband, Problems and arguments within husband and wife, relationship problems, problems in relationships

March 15, 2010 17:21
Category : Relationships
1 answers

Dhavala

karma: 33

Hi,

Me and husband both are employed. So we don't have much time to spend with each other. We both were really happy before this year. I don't understand what suddenly changed in our life style. I have more work pressure in office nowadays and after a tiresome day in office when I reach home I ofen have arguments and quarrels with my husband. I am much afraid that what will happen If this prolongs. I know that I want to change my attitude and want to be happy and peacefully with my husband. So anyone please suggest me how to handle the problems and how to have intimacy with my husband.

1 answers so far. What are your thoughts?

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Dhaaruni

karma: 10

Dear Dhavala,

Don't worry this is the problem happens in many couples in their work. That too in this competitive world generally both of them are not having enough time to understand each other. So first of all you should sit down and ask yourself why you are unhappy in the relationship. Figure out what is going on in your life and separate the external stress factors. While arguing if your comments are blaming and hurtful, it's best to consider and change your way of talking. You have to carefully think all of this. After finding the cause and problems sit down and talk with your partner honestly. Apologize to him for what went wrong on your side. In the same way make him understand your feelings and the situation you got hurt. Clear communication alone can solve this problem. Try this and watch something wonderful happen.