Is is good to say ok to all the demands of the children

Tags : Is is good to say ok to all the demands of the children, psycological behaviour in children, is not saying no to all the demands of children is bad, how to handle the tween psycological behaviours

March 22, 2010 17:05
Category : School-Age Kids (5-8)
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Shuhani

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I am a mother of 2 children one is seven and one is ten. They both are smart and as well as good in attitude. But I don't know whether to say this as a problem or not. My husband never says no to any of their demands. But sometimes when he says ok to unnecesary things I am getting worried that the children will get addicted to it and will a wrong attititude develop in them that whatever we do and whatever we asks we will get. So one day I asked to him reagarding this he said that when he was young he had a deprived childhood so he doesn't want his children to fo through the same lifestyle. But I am worried that whether he is giving more advantage to them which will become a very big problem in their future. Please anyone advice me what to do.

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Madhavid..

karma: 33

Hi,

Yes I can understand your worries as a mother and in one point of view you are right. By saying yes to all the demands of the children he is making them happy but he is not aware that he is spoiling his future. Also, if children used to have their own way cannot take no for an answer and the dear daddy will not always be with them to save them and to give them a yes and ok answer. Sit and talk with him and make him understand that this is not the way to grow up your children into individuals. He should realise that when the children playu the game of life his role is not to save the goals for them but to be their cheerleader.

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Greetings Doctor,

Trust this finds u in best of health.

I am a mother of 2 kids. daughter age 6 and son 22 months. my concern is my son. its been a couple of months now, he blabbers alot. there are a few words i can understand but most of the time he blabbers or talks baby talk to himself or to us. he can say mamma, dadda, come, more (if he wants more to eat) numnum for food, the word no, his sister's name very recently. he loves to sing rhymes. but he cant prenounce the words perfectly but say he is 4 out of 10. the melody is perfect. it was all very adorable but sometimes its very worrying to hear him blabber. i wonder if it is normal. i am quite anxious to know cause i did not experience this with my daughter. infact she started talking really well by this time. please advise. Thanks for reading.

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natalia

Hi Natalia,

No 2 kids are same so u cannot compare him with your daughter, From what you have written, doesn’t looks like there is a problem, some kids start speaking late, so if his understanding of things and hearing is all right,don’t worry, just continue talking to him, reading to him and otherwise stimulating him and just relax and enjoy your babies!