I am a housewife. my son name is nagarjun. my  birth place is kumbakonam. I love search and cook new dishes, watching films, reading novels. I love very much in beach. in 24 hours i stay in beach i like.my son 8 months old. i have spend more time to him. so, i have no time to do my activity. 

 I am a housewife. my son name is nagarjun. my  birth place is kumbakonam. I love search and cook new dishes, watching films, reading novels. I love very much in beach. in 24 hours i stay in beach i like.my son 8 months old. i have spend more time to him. so, i have no time to do my activity. 

I am a mom of 9 years girl. She is lovely in character. She is very kind. She is very fond of dance.

hi all

Hope all r fine and happy .I joined a college as lecturer so due to lack of time now visiting chennai moms only on weekends. Yesterday my daughter saw nadhiya songs from puvepuchudava . She told after becoming a big girl like nadhiya  she will wear blue (Her favourite colour )salwar  go out to all places likes hills , garden etc and dance .( Nadhiya akka maari periya ponnanadhum malai,thotathukelaam poi Tiku Tiku Tikunu dance aaduven  )Both myself and my mother were amused at her talk and laughed .

Thanks a lot Nithila and Sranj

I wil try to give her food in the way you both suggested.

Do not let the kid know that they are eating.  Keep the plate behind him/her, talk to them while you feed and when you feed all their concentration should be on what you are telling them.. u can see their mouth opening automatically and their eyes wide open and listening to you... or let them play on their toys.. when their concentration is on their toy give them food.. never say "come, have this" or even feed them straight where they can see you bringing food to their mouth.  sit close behind, hold them, talk to them and feed them or sit close next to them.. never in front of them.

this really works.. try!

hi Pranu

Sorry for late reply.I came online after a gap.My daughter is also same like urs.One of my unmarried  friend saw me running after her while eating one day and told she feels like seeing 'Junior Horlicks Advertisement.'.She was also quite Ok with eating habits till she is one and half yrs old. But now very fussy to eat. especially she never likes to drink milk nowadays. Always prefer Juice . I am bit releived that she loves fruits a lot be it a apple,mango,hillbanana,Guava,strawberry,sappota,Pomegranate ,Watermelon,Pinapple,Tomato ...Almost all fruits she loves to eat. .I think this may be due to habit since i introduced  fruits one by one from 6 months..Try to give her regularly fruits.Even though if she resists for some time she will like them slowly.  U also eat fruit befor her. as often as possible. Tey making Kootu out of cabbage,Pumpkin,Chow-Chow etc mix it with Rice and ghee and give.My daughter likes this. As snacks Cut carrots,Potatoes (finger size) Steam boil and give in a attractive plates or cups.Hide small pieces of mashed vegetables (whatever u cook that day) within her food and give.These r just tips and may work with some kids may become aflop with some kids.Tell stories or show birds(hi..Hi..KAKA),trees,plants while eating.If kids r absorbed in our talk they wont care much what they r eating. Ur  talk should be so interesting while ur giving food .. .Bye

Hi nithila,

  Thanks a ton for the reply.I never force her for anything. I really get upset only with her eating habbits. sometimes she eats well , sometimes she will run after seeing me with the bowl.she used to eat well till 1.4yr but now she doesn't like  vegitables and fruits.now she started having spicy food.

how can I change her eating habbits and make her eat vegitables and fruits.